Did you know that the “do it yourself mentality” can stem from feeling unworthy?🤯 ⁠⁣⁠⁣Say what, Vanessa? ⁠⁣Yep, unfortunately, it’s true. ⁠⁣⁠⁣We live in a society that praises people based on what we accomplish, especially when these things are accomplished by ourselves.💪🏼⁠⁣⁠⁣We feel our “worthiest” when we reach that income goal, sign that high-ticket client, […]

Abundance, Mindset, Personal Growth, Uncategorized

Leave the “Do it Yourself Mentality” In 2021

How many times do we leave content in the drafts because we aren’t quite sure it’s perfect enough?⁠⁠You have great ideas but the follow-through isn’t there because of the fear of others. ⁠ What if they don’t think I put enough effort into it? ⁠What if they find a mistake? ⁠What if it’s not received […]

Mindset, Productivity

Done is Better Than Perfect💙⁠

A negative mindset can be an extremely slippery slope. Most of the time you won’t even recognize that your mindset is in a negative space. It can sneak up on you fast and wreak havoc on your life in many ways. So how can we keep that negativity far far away from us? We must […]

Mindset, Personal Growth, Success

How Your Negative Mindset will Disguise Itself👀🥸

What would you say is your spiritual gift?⁠🙏🏼✨⁣⁠⁣Everyone has one … or many. If you don’t feel like you have one it’s probably because you haven’t tapped into it fully yet. Or maybe you’re unsure how to use it within your business.⁠⁣⁠⁣Your spiritual gifts are tools in your toolbox that can have a powerful impact […]

Abundance, Faith & Spirituality, Mindset

Let’s Talk About Spiritual Gifts

As we enter into the holiday season it is easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle.⁣⁣⁣⁣Deadlines approach and calendars fill, but you want to enjoy the moments not just go through the motions.⁣⁣⁣⁣This season, though traditionally filled with gatherings and gifts, can sometimes feel like the loneliest season of all.⁣⁣⁣⁣It’s important that […]

Mindset, Stress & Anxiety

5 Reminders for This Holiday Season

What REALLY is Fear of Success?⁠⁠Fear of failure can often manifest itself as fear of success. 👀⁠A lot of the time, we hear people talking about how the fear of failure holds them back from reaching their dreams.⁠⁠We secretly say, “Well … at least if I don’t start, I can’t fail.” 🤦🏻‍♀️⁠⁠But do you truly […]

Abundance, Mindset, Success

Fear of Success

Fear of Success Vanessa Aviles Life & Mindset Coach

I decided to heal my money drama.⁠⁣⁠⁣And you should, too.⁠⁣⁠⁣When I first started working with my coach Sabrina Philip, I couldn’t wrap my mind around how she was BFFs with money.⁠⁣⁠⁣She not only has a healthy relationship with it, but she always believed she could make her millions easily.⁠⁣⁠⁣I wanted that.⁠⁣⁠⁣But…⁠⁣No matter what knowledge I […]

Abundance, Mindset, Personal Growth

Healing My Money Drama

Here are four affirmations for an aligned & abundant August!⁠⁠ Let August be your month to embrace your imperfections, build upon your strengths and normalize not always having it “all together.” We can feel whole without having to be perfect. Success is not something that’s acquired, but something that’s created. August is the month to […]

Abundance, Mindset, Personal Growth

Affirmations for an Abundant August!

“The breaking point came…I walked out of the room, grabbed my personal belongings, and left… Once I was in the hallways of the corporate building, I ran. Like a battered woman fleeing an abusive relationship. Because it was” This was me, 7 years ago.  Where my Mindset Journey began. I want to thank Voyage Tampa […]

Mindset, Personal Growth

Where My Mindset Journey Began

Even the pieces you’ve been trying to keep hidden and tucked away…⁠⁣⁠⁣〰️ The weight gain that’s crept in (what seems overnight), sleepless nights, and dark circles forming under your eyes from working late for what you want.⁠⁣⁠⁣〰️ Trauma that’s resurfaced that’s causing strain in your personal relationships.⁠⁣⁠⁣〰️ The times you’ve been nasty, yelled, or acted […]

Abundance, Mindset, Personal Growth, Self Care

Love Every Part Of You