Even the pieces you’ve been trying to keep hidden and tucked away…⁠⁣⁠⁣〰️ The weight gain that’s crept in (what seems overnight), sleepless nights, and dark circles forming under your eyes from working late for what you want.⁠⁣⁠⁣〰️ Trauma that’s resurfaced that’s causing strain in your personal relationships.⁠⁣⁠⁣〰️ The times you’ve been nasty, yelled, or acted […]

Abundance, Mindset, Personal Growth, Self Care

Love Every Part Of You

Unpopular Opinion: Imposter Syndrome isn’t all that bad. 🤭 In fact, it can be used as a motivator!⁣⁣Everyone talks about imposter syndrome like it’s this big bad boogie monster hiding under your bed.⁣⁣The truth is that everyone experiences it. Not only once, but several times.⁣⁣It shows up when we are experiencing growth. When we are […]

Abundance, Mindset, Personal Growth

Unpopular Opinion: Imposter Syndrome Edition

⁠⁣What if you discovered it was really just a construct enabling the exchange of economic value. ⁠⁣⁠⁣Literally, whatever we believe it is — it is … and as long as we believe.⁠⁣⁠⁣As entrepreneurs, it’s essential to heal any money stories that are holding you back from making your business profitable. ⁠⁣⁠⁣You can be amazing at […]

Abundance, Mindset

What if Everything You Learned About Money Up To This Point Was Untrue?⁠⁣

Mindset determines your initiative, mindset determines your determination, mindset determines your investment, and mindset determines your behavior.⁣⁣Strategy determines none of those things unless your mindset says your objective is both possible and desirable.⁣⁣Read that again⬆️⁣⁣Your brain convinces you that you just needed a better strategy, so you start all over by recreating a different plan […]

Mindset

What’s More Important? Your Mindset or Your Strategy?

✋🏼Stop focusing on external strategies more than getting your mindset right. ⁠⁣⁣⁠⁣⁣This graphic is a perfect illustration as to why. ⁠⁣⁣It’s a much harder climb to reach your goals when you’re focusing on external behavior & strategies more than your mindset.⁠⁣⁣⁠⁣⁣When I started learning about NLP, I discovered that by understanding the logical levels to […]

Abundance, Mindset

Are You Focusing on External Strategies more than Getting Your Mindset Right?

I mean deep in your soul worthy?⁣ Worthy of love, success, and the most AMAZING & ABUNDANT life possible?⁣⁣OR are you trying to prove your worth through your (often misaligned) actions?⁣⁣Everyone wants to manifest this, that and the other by:⁣⁣Signing up for all manifestation courses.⁣Surrounding themselves with sticky-note affirmations.⁣Getting all the crystals.⁣Praying and hoping. (BTW […]

Abundance, Mindset, Personal Growth

Do You Feel 100% Worthy Right Now?

When you are shaping your future based on your past, you create a loop.⁠ 🔂⁠⁣⁠⁣Tired of your loops?⁠ 🤯⁠⁣⁠⁣Being stuck in a loop = a pattern programmed into your subconscious mind. ⁠⁣⁠⁣If you want your life to change, you can NO LONGER make decisions based on where you always were. ⁠⁣⁠⁣Instead, you have to start […]

Mindset, Personal Growth, Productivity

Are You Stuck in A Loop?

Going into this fresh week, ask yourself…⁠⁣ ‍✍🏼 “What do I REALLy want?”⁠⁣⁠⁣‍✍🏼 “Is this the best use of my time & energy?” ⁠⁣⁠⁣‍✍🏼 “Where do I need to create boundaries?”⁠⁣⁠⁣‍✍🏼 “How do I want to really FEEL on a daily?”⁠⁣⁠⁣We’re not our thoughts, we’re the thinker of our thoughts. ⁠⁣‍⁠⁣Our thoughts do set us […]

Mindset, Personal Growth, Self Care, Stress & Anxiety

You are NOT Your Negative Thoughts

You messed up royally. 😱⁠⁣It was not your finest moment (or even maybe a season).⁠⁣⁠⁣But that doesn’t mean you’re not deserving of good things, happiness, and success in life. ⁠⁣⁠⁣It doesn’t mean you’re not allowed to still HAVE AMAZING THINGS HAPPEN in your life as you work through whatever you gotta work through.⁠⁣⁠⁣They are not […]

Mindset, Personal Growth

You are Worthy Even When You F*CK Up!

Do not force things because it negates your efforts. Instead, ALLOW. 👏🏼⁠⁠⁣__⁠⁠⁣⁠⁠⁣Although I’ve understood this concept. I had accepted it. I didn’t embrace it for a long, long time.⁠⁠⁣⁠⁠⁣My entire life I was brought up with this idea that everything is hard.⁠⁠⁣⁠⁠⁣School is hard.⁠⁠⁣Work is hard.⁠⁠⁣Marriage is hard.⁠⁠⁣Making new friends is hard.⁠⁠⁣Building a business will […]

Mindset, Personal Growth, Productivity

It Doesn’t Need to Be Hard

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