What REALLY is Fear of Success?⁠⁠Fear of failure can often manifest itself as fear of success. 👀⁠A lot of the time, we hear people talking about how the fear of failure holds them back from reaching their dreams.⁠⁠We secretly say, “Well … at least if I don’t start, I can’t fail.” 🤦🏻‍♀️⁠⁠But do you truly […]

Abundance, Mindset, Success

Fear of Success

Fear of Success Vanessa Aviles Life & Mindset Coach

I decided to heal my money drama.⁠⁣⁠⁣And you should, too.⁠⁣⁠⁣When I first started working with my coach Sabrina Philip, I couldn’t wrap my mind around how she was BFFs with money.⁠⁣⁠⁣She not only has a healthy relationship with it, but she always believed she could make her millions easily.⁠⁣⁠⁣I wanted that.⁠⁣⁠⁣But…⁠⁣No matter what knowledge I […]

Abundance, Mindset, Personal Growth

Healing My Money Drama

Here are four affirmations for an aligned & abundant August!⁠⁠ Let August be your month to embrace your imperfections, build upon your strengths and normalize not always having it “all together.” We can feel whole without having to be perfect. Success is not something that’s acquired, but something that’s created. August is the month to […]

Abundance, Mindset, Personal Growth

Affirmations for an Abundant August!

“The breaking point came…I walked out of the room, grabbed my personal belongings, and left… Once I was in the hallways of the corporate building, I ran. Like a battered woman fleeing an abusive relationship. Because it was” This was me, 7 years ago.  Where my Mindset Journey began. I want to thank Voyage Tampa […]

Mindset, Personal Growth

Where My Mindset Journey Began

Even the pieces you’ve been trying to keep hidden and tucked away…⁠⁣⁠⁣〰️ The weight gain that’s crept in (what seems overnight), sleepless nights, and dark circles forming under your eyes from working late for what you want.⁠⁣⁠⁣〰️ Trauma that’s resurfaced that’s causing strain in your personal relationships.⁠⁣⁠⁣〰️ The times you’ve been nasty, yelled, or acted […]

Abundance, Mindset, Personal Growth, Self Care

Love Every Part Of You

Then, the rest of your life you live out that programming, 😳 unless … you transform your paradigm.⁣ If you were not programmed for going after your dreams, knowing your worth, having fulfilling relationships, wealth and abundance …⁣⁣then the rest of your life will feel like an uphill battle on your journey to achieve them.⁣⁣Believe […]

Mindset, Stress & Anxiety

The First 7 Years of Your Life Were Programmed

Unpopular Opinion: Imposter Syndrome isn’t all that bad. 🤭 In fact, it can be used as a motivator!⁣⁣Everyone talks about imposter syndrome like it’s this big bad boogie monster hiding under your bed.⁣⁣The truth is that everyone experiences it. Not only once, but several times.⁣⁣It shows up when we are experiencing growth. When we are […]

Abundance, Mindset, Personal Growth

Unpopular Opinion: Imposter Syndrome Edition

⁠⁣What if you discovered it was really just a construct enabling the exchange of economic value. ⁠⁣⁠⁣Literally, whatever we believe it is — it is … and as long as we believe.⁠⁣⁠⁣As entrepreneurs, it’s essential to heal any money stories that are holding you back from making your business profitable. ⁠⁣⁠⁣You can be amazing at […]

Abundance, Mindset

What if Everything You Learned About Money Up To This Point Was Untrue?⁠⁣

Mindset determines your initiative, mindset determines your determination, mindset determines your investment, and mindset determines your behavior.⁣⁣Strategy determines none of those things unless your mindset says your objective is both possible and desirable.⁣⁣Read that again⬆️⁣⁣Your brain convinces you that you just needed a better strategy, so you start all over by recreating a different plan […]


What’s More Important? Your Mindset or Your Strategy?

✋🏼Stop focusing on external strategies more than getting your mindset right. ⁠⁣⁣⁠⁣⁣This graphic is a perfect illustration as to why. ⁠⁣⁣It’s a much harder climb to reach your goals when you’re focusing on external behavior & strategies more than your mindset.⁠⁣⁣⁠⁣⁣When I started learning about NLP, I discovered that by understanding the logical levels to […]

Abundance, Mindset

Are You Focusing on External Strategies more than Getting Your Mindset Right?


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